I’ve been in sexual relationships where we wake each-other up for sex. And I’ve definitely been like, no not right now, and gone back to sleep, when sex had already been initiated while I was asleep. And had the same in reverse. Even though we stopped when the other said no, the sex already happened, so by this definition that’s rape. I think this definition is as laughably ridiculous as many legal definitions that have fucked over people who should have won cases, because reality isn’t so cut and dry. That’s not rape. So many arguments and examples why that’s fucking stupid I can’t even pick one, so …. closing this. lol.